By Petra Boynton. I'm 19 but have only ever had sex with an older boyfriend he was We split up a year ago and now I'd like to find boys my own age — but am scared about the sex thing; I haven't done it in over a year.
I'm not normal. Why can't I just be like my friends? I don't think I'll ever be able to have anything inside me, ever.
Sex can be many things: fun, spontaneous, exciting, and relaxing, but for some people, sex is a source of fear and anxiety. We all want to be sexually confident women who feel good about their desires and choices, but not everybody is like that. And there can be many different reasons that women fear sex. Sex fears aren't always visible, and you may not even know you have them.
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I'm 21 and still a virgin. I grew up in a religious, conservative family in a religious, conservative country where dating and sex before marriage aren't the norm. However, I've never really been the religious, conservative type myself, so I've dated around.
I'm 22, a virgin and have had only two relationships due to my complete frigidity. I've always been highly uncomfortable with physical contact of any kind. Hand-holding, caressing and kissing bore and intimidate me and sex just scares me.
My boyfriend and Ihave been thinking about having sex. You don't tell us your age, which is important. However, if you're not sure about going ahead then I urge you not to have sex for the time being.